long time to blog...ha!

wow..its been a long time...anyways...

I don't understand why:

1. I always take cool identification pictures (i.e. school i.d. , drivers license)

2. My teacher in school taught me the rule i before e except after c....but I always spell receive incorrectly and have to let auto-correct fix it....smh

3. my roommate wakes up at 6am every morning to talk ridiculously loud on the phone in the kitchen...

4. why is the blackberry a must have...I love my palm pre!

5. My janky computer just cuts off whenever the heck it feels like it....UGH!

6. This hair of mine likes to act a plum fool...well I do know why but I just hate it!!

7. I love techno sounding house music, I dance my rhythmless dance to the crazy sounding beats

8. hotsauce is one of my staples, gotta have it on almost everything

9. The girls at PV and TSU look alike and smell like spritz...

10. Males wear "skinty" jeans, it looks really gross when your pants are skinnier and tighter than mine.

11. Facebook chat is an application on there...[thumbs down] no bueno!

12. People walk out of the restroom without washing their hands, that is sooo disgusting!!

13. Black girls with big ol butts where tights and a small t-shirt, that outfit is not made for your body frame!!

14. I love neon colors soo much...they just make me happy

15. People are vegetarians....there is nothing wrong with it...but I love meat sooo much

16. People you continually reject as friends on facebook continue to send you friend requests

17. There is always that one male who comments on ALL of your pictures, statuses, etc!!

18. people delete you as a friend on facebook and then try and send you another friend request

I don't understand alot of things...as you can see, and I could go on for hours, but I have homework to do so I won't....today!! LMBO!!! [better now Dante'?]

...

I am a

that is so in

with the

although these classes.boyfriend.work.church.life is getting pretty hard to juggle, I am still happy.


[pointless blog, just needed a break from homework]

until I blog again,

RavmyFav♥

in a perfect world...

♥ would have a definition that everyone follows and the same scenario would happen all the time.

friends would be easy to find and you could trust everyone.

boys/girls would understand the opposite sex without having to experience hard times and tears.

but we don't live in a perfect world

I realized today that although my relationship isn't perfect I serve a God who is, and if this is truly ordained by him, it will work. I had to think and ask myself some true questions as I ran around the track relieving anger [and these extra pounds :)] Does my relationship have enough wisdom to know that not every day will be perfect? and enough ♥ to offer forgiveness and comfort?

I pondered and pondered on how I have gone through so much in relationships and vowed to never let anyone take from me what God had given, but it seems that my anger always seemed to get the best of me, and my joy is taken. Will my anger put me in d"anger" of messing up a good thing?

I feel as if I am not understood...EVER...why do my words always trigger you getting upset?

this must past, but until it does...

will I have enough wisdom to understand that it won't be perfect and enough ♥ to offer forgiveness and comfort?

until I blog again,

RavmyFav♥

summer summer summertime...

...so summer school starts on Tuesday and for me, its a happy and sad time.

It's now the time of the year where I get to do nothing and get away with it...[yeah right, I wish]. I thought I would talk about summer fashion and what I expect to see [although I know everyone doesn't think like I do] and what I DON'T want to see. [disclaimer: I am no fashion diva or any crap like that I am just telling how disgusting and stupid you look from a laymen's point of view...ha!] here goes...

gladiator sandals

♥ them, I have actually owned a pair since summer of '07, but they are not meant to cover your whole leg...DON'T wear them...leave the too long gladiators to Xena...

Showing your point-of-view is pretty cool, but if you didn't vote, please DON'T wear them! [thankyouplease]




Maxi dresses are adorable, can be worn dressy or casual, and oh so comfy, but please...please DO NOT go bra-less if you are larger than most up there and don't wear your largest pair of cotton underwear if your dress is clingy...

DO NOT...I repeat, DO NOT wear a swimsuit that is 2 cup sizes smaller than you are...that is disgusting.

okay everyone is not a size 6, and that is okay, they make swim suits for all [maybe they shouldn't but they do] so if you know you aren't small DON'T wear a string bikini and have your chest supportless and hanging at your navel. DO wear a fuller top with a halter so that you have support.

Here's a chart care of fabsugar.com go check it out to see which suit best fits you ;)

okay I think I am done and here is something for you to move your feet to as I close....

until I blog again,

RavmyFav♥

laughter is the best medicine...

Proverbs 17:22 reads A glad ♥ makes a healthy body, but a crushed spirit makes the bones dry.

I am so grateful for the chance to laugh.smile.grin.giggle.chuckle. & laugh hysterically, although it may be small to some, everybody doesn't laugh or smile, idk [why couldn't I just say I don't know ;)] why, but they should.

anywho...

I was watching the game and saw the cutest commercial and thought I would share it, everyone needs to laugh and let go sometimes.

...

the point of this blog stemmed from my reaction to some news I received about my grades and graduation. I will not disclose the information, but just know I will be graduating in the year 2010.

I also had a chance to watch the Hannah Montana movie this week and I kind of enjoyed it and her "Hoedown Throwdown" song, it re-assured me that the Cupid Shuffle, Electric Slide, and all those other foolish dances that African Americans have out are not the only one's and that all races have foolish stuff to dance to...hahaha!

I guess this was a pointless blog too [♥ ya Dante'] but I needed to get my mind off of that and try and laugh...guess I will just try not to think about it and pray my way through!

until I blog again,

RavmyFav♥

What if God is Unhappy...

As I drove to PV from Dallas, I placed my iPod on shuffle and amazingly the words to the songs, just seemed to grab at me.




Although the songs may not be considered something to open your eyes or mind to what God has planned for your life, I realized that the lyrics of the songs were really helping me [although I wasn’t going through anything, I just felt as if the Lord was talking to me through the lyrics]…

Jesus take the Wheel

[follow link to hear song]

Carrie Underwood truly has a message through this song , and it really describes my life and how I continue to try and control things that I can’t. I always get tired from pushing myself so hard, but God already has it planned out. I have to learn to let go and accept that God has given me another chance [plenty of times] at accomplishing what he has already ordained. “I’m sorry for the way I’ve been living my life, I know I’ve got to change…”

Then to my surprise Rascal Flats’ When the Sand Runs out began to play…

When the Sand Runs Out
[follow link to hear song]

"I'm gonna stop lookin' back and start movin' on and learn how to face my fears

love with all of my heart, make my mark I wanna leave something here
Go out on a ledge, without any net
That's what I'm gonna be about
Yeah I wanna be runnin'
When the sand runs out"

too many times we carry our past with us to our future and don’t realize that it is in the past for a reason. We have to start going out and not being afraid of what is to come, he [God] takes us through things for a reason, and he won’t put us through something he knows we can’t handle.

Oddly enough those were both country songs [which I ♥ by the way]

THEN

...the song/title is self-explanatory. It’s amazing how he is such a gracious.loving.caring.forgiving. God and still cares for simple.goofy.sinner Ravonne inspite of my ways…my my my…who else but GOD!!?!?!?!


Then the namesake for this blog began to play…
What if God is Unhappy with the way we live…what if he takes away his love and his spirit from above…

My iPod really became a liaison to Christ [that day]

Whew…

btw the Texas weather has really disrespected me the past few days, it has rained, been 95 degrees, and been humid…my poor hair!

Well this blog is done…until I blog again,

RavmyFav♥

its tuesday.

no class or work & the house is empty so that means it's time for me to make my way southeast and head to Prairie View...[oh how excited I am for that 3 hr drive (2 1/2 in my car) back]

on a side note:

I watched Obama this morning and you should have too, just in case you didn't here you go.....http://www.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/05/26/supreme.court/index.html?iref=mpstoryview#cnnSTCVideo

She is "An ordinary woman with extraordinary experiences." From a housing project in the South Bronx to serving as the first Latina on the SUPREME Court. What a warm reaffirmation of our American dream.

now back to my randomness

I really miss these shows and being excited to stay home during the summer to watch them...




okay now to speak on my relationship...hmmm
our love is like Tupperware.

we seem to not want to put every thing in it, because we're not sure we're gonna get it back, but it seems so real, why is love so difficult, and yet so rewarding? I do know, however, that I am happy and that's how I want it to stay... India.Arie has a song that completely describes how I feel about him. [follow the link and listen to "He heals me"] I feel as though our relationship is really helping me spiritually and mentally. He helps me in so many ways I can't even explain. I truly ♥ him more than anything [except Christ] and I just don't want to mess it up...

my suggestion to those who don't have ♥ now:

use paper plates and guard your heart, but don't treat him/her as if you are getting revenge from your past, that can truly ruin your relationship ;)

on a sad note:

Jon & Kate plus 8 season finale is in my near future, I did not watch it last night due to the game [yay Denver, btw] but I will be watching tonight at 7...

FLASHBACK!!!!

this song was on my mind hard this morning...idk why, but I ♥ it so much and it brings back so many memories from my childhood



well

until I blog again,

RavmyFav♥

a day in the life & mind

of RavmyFav

I Woke Up In The Morning/Took A Knee And Thanked The Man!

ok so basically my day was pretty uneventful but I thought I'd share just b/c I can and this is my first blog...

numero uno

FLASHBACK!!!!
I watched Bernstein Bears on Sprout with Melodi [my sister]
*totally the books to read back in the day!!!*

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7ttL6UouPw

NEXT…I pretty much do nothing but watch the ANTM season on Oxygen....

Oprah is totally the best for creating this channel, but why are there so many durn commercials about dog food, I am not a fan of dogs, so why do I have to watch them over and over again while trying to watch the ANTM "obsessed." [http://www.oxygen.com/tvshows/topmodel]

ANYWHO [got a lil sidetracked]

Melodi and I enjoyed the fact that we didn't have to go to school/daycare that Carmen is paying for [literally], we played with her lego's, colored, and used our laptops.

AND THEN….

I did some work on YPDspace [http://www.ameypd.ning.com]...blah blah blah
ate snack, lunch, snack...

and now waiting on mom to come home from airport for dinner...ha!

I have been waiting ALL day to hear this [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQO7IUrqXqY] play from my phone...guess I will continue to wait until he stops being stubborn and goes to

well I guess that was my day...

oh and I am prepared for this win Denver...let's go!

until I blog again,

RavmyFav♥

my first time...

I'm new to this thing, but I like it thus far...